It really is that simple. In all things, I ask myself if I am making decisions based on generosity. Compassion is generous and supports my mission of bringing healing and empowerment to as many people as possible during my lifetime. Making decisions based upon fear of any kind is not generous. Ever since I stepped beyond fear and let the spirit of generosity guide my life and my decisions about my career, I have been blessed with an abundance of work and special people in my life.
The spirit of generosity also includes non-competitiveness with other practitioners. I have been criticized often by those who do not understand my willingness to promote other healers. My philosophy is that, numerically speaking, there is more than enough business to go around. Look at how many doctors there are. No one is telling them, "Look, you shouldn't be referring patients to other physicians because it might impact your business."
Physicians refer to one another because everyone has their own unique skill set. Even among primary care doctors, some are more skilled at treating gastrointestinal disorders, while others may have more knowledge about gynecological issues. Physicians complement one another by working together within their various capabilities to provide care for their patients.
Although I am not a medical doctor, there is a similar situation with myself and Ayurveda. There is no one out there who has my unique skill set. Likewise, I have my own way of interacting with people that is intentionally somewhat informal. I have created my practice with my values and goals in mind, just as others who choose different approaches have structured their businesses to meet their own goals.
It is easy to get caught up in marketing, promotions, and checking out what the "other guys" are doing to make sure I am competitive. But the truth is, my practice grows best when I don't worry about those things. When I focus on interacting authentically with each person and when I generously accept the offers of fellow healers for collaborative projects, my business thrives. When I consciously seek ways to promote the healing work of others, more people seek me out. I can keep a peaceful mind by reminding myself about these things. The money always comes and my practice continues to grow. What we give generously to others, we get back.
The spirit of generosity also includes non-competitiveness with other practitioners. I have been criticized often by those who do not understand my willingness to promote other healers. My philosophy is that, numerically speaking, there is more than enough business to go around. Look at how many doctors there are. No one is telling them, "Look, you shouldn't be referring patients to other physicians because it might impact your business."
Physicians refer to one another because everyone has their own unique skill set. Even among primary care doctors, some are more skilled at treating gastrointestinal disorders, while others may have more knowledge about gynecological issues. Physicians complement one another by working together within their various capabilities to provide care for their patients.
Although I am not a medical doctor, there is a similar situation with myself and Ayurveda. There is no one out there who has my unique skill set. Likewise, I have my own way of interacting with people that is intentionally somewhat informal. I have created my practice with my values and goals in mind, just as others who choose different approaches have structured their businesses to meet their own goals.
It is easy to get caught up in marketing, promotions, and checking out what the "other guys" are doing to make sure I am competitive. But the truth is, my practice grows best when I don't worry about those things. When I focus on interacting authentically with each person and when I generously accept the offers of fellow healers for collaborative projects, my business thrives. When I consciously seek ways to promote the healing work of others, more people seek me out. I can keep a peaceful mind by reminding myself about these things. The money always comes and my practice continues to grow. What we give generously to others, we get back.
"Let a spirit of generosity guide your path of practice."
-Michelle Dexter Garber